Monday, July 03, 2006

Made use of?

Ever met someone who can make use of a few people at a go and get away with it all?
Some people are just blessed. Funny how these exact people never realise that & appreciate those around them.

Friend or not, people just need to feel appreciated.
A simple thank you. Or a gesture to thank.

No sound no picture.
No I might not come. I'm kept waiting again.
It's f***ing irritating.

There is a HUGE difference between taking care of someone and being courteous.
Courteous is thanking the person who's helped you in more ways than you can imagine. A simple thank you would suffice. Taking care is helping someone you care about in every way you can. Taking care of someone isn't about patronising them.

Someone told me, "I think you're being unreasonably unfair to yourself."
In some way, I am. In fact, in too many ways have I been unreasonably unfair to myself. All for the sake of some people who don't appreciate.

Self-centred idiots. That's what they are. So selfish they turn ugly.
Too selfish to care. And not that they are unable to.
They take what they like. They run when they can't deal.
They come as they please. They go when it is most convenient for them.
They do you no favours. They feel like the world owes them something and not vice versa. They don't bother if they have inconvenienced others. They don't wonder if they have done something at the expense of others. They bend the truth as and when it fits them.

The best part: They get away with it scot-free.

Why? Perhaps people like their face. They are good-looking. They are charming. They sweet talk you into giving them what they want. They aren't straightforward and honest. They bend the truth to get what they want.

Funny how the person guilty of all this points a finger at me accusing me of the very same thing.
But yet, I have not run from anything. I care about how others feel, perhaps not in the perfect way but in best way I can. And I don't lie. In fact, those who know me would know I'm honest to a fault. So honest I'm blunt.

Posted by PhyQuirks. at 5:30 pm 2 comments